DLRC and its wholesome learning program
Expert session Question & Answers

Education wise many students are unaware of course options. Do we as parents feed them with information or will they learn through their friends and teachers? Where my son is unaware, there seem to be many of his friends who are clear cut of their future plans till their Phds. What should be done?

G09 through G12 is a beautiful time where the young adult’s potential can be guided in a wholesome manner such that the child not only develops academically but also develops skills to work with their hands and builds empathy. There is no rule book that we have as parents. We have two girls who have gone through this process. It helps to take a medium to long term view when thinking of High School (G09 through G12) learning journey. Parents should start thinking of High school as a 4 year journey, in G08, and not in G10. The future belongs to those who can weave a story with seemingly unconnected dots or those who can empathize with others.

Tension prevails and overtakes us when we see students already enrolled for classes towards entrance exams which come after 12th grade in grade 7 or 8 itself. How can we overcome this?

The culture of coaching class and entrance examinations kills the child within the youth. Until 7th or 8th, the child has not even had the maturity or the time to explore options. He needs to explore and find himself/herself. What careers are we preparing our children for? Most of them will not even be available by the time our children are in the job market. What matters more is our children’s ability to learn on the fly.

How do we counsel our children for the future?

Counseling children is a three way effort that involves the child, the parent and the school. In this process the child needs to develop the skills to know himself/herself and the parents/educators need to work on understanding the child. It is only after this that the counseling happens. In the process our goal is to develop a socially aware human being who not only cares about self but also about the surrounding/society.

Are there colleges which test the skills of children and not consider the marks they score in 12th grade?

There are new breeds of Liberal Arts Colleges that focus more on a child’s ability to think laterally and not just the marks scored in G12.

My daughter is in 11th standard. She is really confused on what to pursue. Can you please name some liberal art colleges?

Symbiosis, Ashoka University, Flame University and many more – not recommending any but listing a few on the top of my mind.

One of my friends has this question for me, which I would like to ask: Should a student pursue a particular interest based on its scope in the employment market?

As stated previously, this is an age when the children need to develop their critical thinking and problem solving skills. If they are able to do that, they will have the skills to create their own employment in addition to looking for employment.

Do we need to make kids join JEE courses and other such coaching in G08 itself? Is it then only they are able to appear for such exams?

This is the age when the kids need to hone their concepts and problem solving skills. Preparation for competitive examinations is a strategy where you need to observe a pattern and solve the problem – hence a lot of practice.

Do you personally counsel or guide students?

I have co-founded DLRC where we work with students and parents holistically. I am extremely passionate about changing the model of high school education. On one hand the students do not get into the college of their choice and on the other hand they are deprived of the development of their mental functions and the function of the will. There is enough research to substantiate that age 14-21 can be broadly categorized as a time when a child’s rational thinking blossoms. As educators, we need to capitalize on this.

Please guide on how to explore and get to know of different career options that children can choose from, as we have limited knowledge.

There is no one right career choice – what is most important to build self-confidence in our children so that they take ownership of their decision.

My daughter is in G07 and is very keen to take up PCM in future. So should I start showing her all the possible streams and prospects regarding the same or this is not the right age? If not the right age then please guide as to from which grade should she be guided?

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Ajay Dalmia – DLRC and its wholesome learning program

Ajay Dalmia – DLRC and its wholesome learning program

Ajay Dalmia is an educationist by profession. He is an engineer by education and has a wide range of educational and financial experience. After having worked in the corporate sector for about two decades, he walked into the educational field while volunteering with Asha for Education. He currently runs DLRC, a learning firm for children where the focus is learning for life and not just for examinations. Ajay Dalmia’s expertise lies in education of young adults, teaching for learning (self and others), financial literacy, process re- engineering and career options after 12th and graduation. He believes in open education for children and encourages parents to support their children in every aspect.