Wow twins is such a beautiful thing to have … they are already in company with each other and don’t feel lonely.
The best you can do is over the weekends go for some physical activity together and play any sports or art or anything that your kids will enjoy … choose an activity that they like… playing with them even during bath time will be fun during weekends.
At this age they are going through a lot of changes physically and mentally and mood swings are quite common. Try to be friends with her.
I suggest don’t be in a guiding mode all the time, give them a little free hand and if you want to restrict a particular action or activity discuss and explain why you are saying so.
Instructing might look like imposing for them. Put yourself absolutely in her age and talk.
For everything the infant needs, they will cry and demand but your 5 year old needs your attention. She is noticing the attention shifting to the little one, so make a conscious effort to give attention to your 5year old daughter. Get her with you to do some activity for the baby. Communicate as much as you can with her.
It’s absolutely alright to be naughty and not stable they just want to play and enjoy and it’s absolutely fine.
To make him study, sit along with him and study with him as though you are also learning … ask questions, let him ask you questions. Try to enjoy that time, don’t feel it like a pressure do it daily. Over a period of time it will just become a habit.
This is very natural with two kids. Just have dedicated timings for each one of them and enjoy your special moments. Let them know how important both of them are for you.
How about trying to acknowledge her ideas for sometime. Give it a shot and I would love to hear from you.
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